Ladies avoid leaning down on your partner’s arms as they will not thank you for it. They will refuse to carry your shopping bags complaining their arms ache.
Men if you want to tell if your ladies are leaning on you, simply drop your arms down. If they are leaning on you their arms will also drop!
Men lead well or your ladies will take control. It’s the only place you are allowed to be in control these days so make the most of it.